So you’re moving into your new home, full of hopes and dreams about your life in this new neighbourhood. You’d really like to get on well with the neighbours, and hope they are going to like you too. So you begin by smiling in a friendly way whenever you see them. So far, so good.
However, from our observations, you also need to be very cautious. If some of your new neighbours are living a decadent lifestyle, with frequent parties, and/or drug taking, chances are high that they will quickly try to include you in their lives. Why? If they can involve you in these bad behaviours, they will feel much safer around you, because if you are also doing bad things, you will not complain to the authorities about them, and if you get upset at them, they can threaten to get you into trouble with the authorities, to keep you under their control. So be friendly, but keep your distance from all your new neighbours until you have had a chance to assess what kind of lifestyle they have.
However, from our observations, you also need to be very cautious. If some of your new neighbours are living a decadent lifestyle, with frequent parties, and/or drug taking, chances are high that they will quickly try to include you in their lives. Why? If they can involve you in these bad behaviours, they will feel much safer around you, because if you are also doing bad things, you will not complain to the authorities about them, and if you get upset at them, they can threaten to get you into trouble with the authorities, to keep you under their control. So be friendly, but keep your distance from all your new neighbours until you have had a chance to assess what kind of lifestyle they have.
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